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The Blues in the Bedroom: Mental Health, Depression and Sex Drive
The Blues in the Bedroom: Mental Health, Depression and Sex Drive

Here are 5 tips for finding reconnection if you or your partner are experiencing a low libido due to depression and anxiety.

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Masturbation as Self-Love and Care
Masturbation as Self-Love and Care

Why you should add self-touch & self-romance to your to-do list; plus tips on how to make it lush.

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Ep 160: Yoni Gazing, Self Discover and Letters to Your Vulva and with Jocelyn Silva
Ep 160: Yoni Gazing, Self Discover and Letters to Your Vulva and with Jocelyn Silva

What is Yoni gazing? Why would you want to look “down there”? How do you ask your partner to help?

Ep 142: Big Dick Energy, the New Year, and the Soap Box
Ep 142: Big Dick Energy, the New Year, and the Soap Box

What is Big Dick Energy (BDE)? What is the difference between having a big dick, being a big dick, and having big dick energy? Can BDE change the way we think of our lives and societies?

Ep 141: Sex Therapy, Sexual Disfunction and Porn Addiction with Dr. Ian Kerner
Ep 141: Sex Therapy, Sexual Disfunction and Porn Addiction with Dr. Ian Kerner

In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline chat with nationally recognized sex therapist and the author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, Dr. Ian Kerner.

Ep 131: Intersectionality, Queer Joy, and Nuyorican Love with Gabby Rivera
Ep 131: Intersectionality, Queer Joy, and Nuyorican Love with Gabby Rivera

Effy and Jacqueline hang out with “Juliet Takes a Breath” author Gabby Rivera to talk about drawing from the collective wisdom of feminism and sex-positivity to create QTBIPOC spaces that prioritize representation and intersectionality.

 

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Ep 156: Exploring the Asexuality Spectrum with Angela Chen
Ep 156: Exploring the Asexuality Spectrum with Angela Chen

In a hypersexualized society, what is it like to be asexual? Do asexual folks have sex? Can asexuality be an important factor for female sexual liberation?

Ep 154: Sex in the Bible, an Easter Egg Hunt with De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar
Ep 154: Sex in the Bible, an Easter Egg Hunt with De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar

Is there Biblical scripture that condones or encourages sexual exploration? Why would God design bodies that experience pleasure if we are not supposed to pursue pleasure? Can faith and sexuality coexist?

Ep 130: Madonna Whore Complex, Arts and Men
Ep 130: Madonna Whore Complex, Arts and Men

What is the Madonna-whore complex? Why has this caricature pit women against each other? How can we disrupt the good girl/ bad girl narrative that impacts the way we see and are seen?

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Ep 121: Identity Formation, Pride and the Law with Dr. Ariana Moran and Maxx Fenning
Ep 121: Identity Formation, Pride and the Law with Dr. Ariana Moran and Maxx Fenning

Effy and Jacqueline speak with Dr. Ariana Moran and Maxx Fenning about identity formation, internal and external producers of shame and fear about our identity, and what we can do to help ourselves and others embrace the full expression of who we are.

Ep 25: Understanding Our Erotic Blueprint with Jessie Fresh
Ep 25: Understanding Our Erotic Blueprint with Jessie Fresh

Effy and Jacqueline sit down with certified Sex and Relationship Coach Jessie Fresh to discuss the Erotic Blueprints™ and how with a clear understanding of how we are wired, we can get to pleasure mastery.

Ep 13: Managing Change in Relationships: Transformation vs Evolution
Ep 13: Managing Change in Relationships: Transformation vs Evolution

While transformation denotes a dramatic change from one thing to another, Effy and Jacqueline discuss how we are focusing on evolution - by stripping away the things that no longer align with our truth.

Ep 6: Know Thyself (Live)
Ep 6: Know Thyself (Live)

From sexual or relational orientation to the way we show and receive love, knowing who we are and how we show up in the world is key to designing relationships we can thrive in. Effy chats with a diverse set of Foxes on this live panel.

Ep 5: Love Languages in Collaboration with Grown Up Questions
Ep 5: Love Languages in Collaboration with Grown Up Questions

Effy collaborated with our friends at Grown Up Questions, a podcast about the life long process of becoming adults. The hosts Ben and Hannah, a brother and sister, explore the love languages with us to make sense of the way they connect to one another.