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Have you ever felt like you were speaking different languages with your sexual partner(s)? We introduce you to the 5 Erotic Blueprints can help you speak your partner’s sexual language and have more pleasurable, fulfilling, and exciting sexual experiences.

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Our sense of wholeness and safety can impact how we experience pleasure and connection through sexual play. How do our attachment patterns impact our sexual experiences? And - more importantly - what can we do about it?

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These 7 masturbation tips will help you prioritize self-pleasure and will provide you with some options to explore and go on a journey of sensual self-discovery.

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More and more women are exploring what it is like to be physically or emotionally intimate with another woman. However, our heteronormative history can make the first time intimidating. These 3 steps can help you release your anxiety and lean into this magical experience.

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Learn about how the Erotic Blueprints™ can help lead you to connective, empowering, fulfilling, and life-changing sex.

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As humans, we are very talented at distraction. We are masters of habit. So often we choose to ignore the parts of ourselves that are attached to painful thoughts and memories. But what would it be like to choose something different, to be truly present with your grief - if only for a few minutes? What would it be like if you consciously chose to sit with your grief and simply witness it?

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With all the options in sex toys, how do you know which to choose? How can you introduce toys into your partnered and solo play? From materials, budget, and the 4 questions you should be asking before you shop, we’ll help you pick out the right toy(s) for you.

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Learning our attachment patterns helps us discover how our brain and body show up in connection with others and why.

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Here’s how to harness the power of sensitivity and empathy to bring out your sexiest self.

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Why you should add self-touch & self-romance to your to-do list; plus tips on how to make it lush.

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These are four tips for empaths and highly sensitive people yearning to relax, enjoy the moment, and get turned on.

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What if there was a way to invite pleasure into the space where grief and pain live?

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Effy and Jacqueline chat with multi-award-winning reporter and the author of Losing It: Sex Education for the 21st Century, Sophia Smith Galer about prevailing sex myths; how to bust those myths through educating ourselves, and what can we do about changing the culture so the information out there is scientifically accurate and focuses as much on pleasure as sexual health, pregnancy and rape reduction.

Erectile dysfunction, STIs, vaccinations, and safe anal play are important conversations for men – particularly queer men – to have with their doctor’s and partners. However sometimes the most important conversations are also the most difficult ones. In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline celebrate Pride and Men’s Health Month by speaking with the “butt stuff” doctor, Mayo Clinic trained gastroenterologist, Doctor Carlton.

Effy and Jacqueline chat with sex educator and pro-domme Lola Jean to get into the whats, hows, and whys of pegging.