Identity

Here are 6 tips to help you explore the full scope of your attraction, while staying in integrity within your monogamous relationship.

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There is a lot of talk about being authentic and living in our truth, and not a lot of discussion about the cost of authenticity. If you are on the journey to live in alignment with who you are, and the people around you are confused or hurting, Jacqueline offers you four lessons from her work.

2 MIN READ

More and more women are exploring what it is like to be physically or emotionally intimate with another woman. However, our heteronormative history can make the first time intimidating. These 3 steps can help you release your anxiety and lean into this magical experience.

1 MIN READ

Prioritizing self-educated on allyship journey enlightens us to how “what does this mean to you” versus “what does this mean” can make all the difference for someone to feel supported.

2 MIN READ

When it comes to relationships: who are you and what do you want; how does your past impact your present; how do you communicate your desires and needs?

5 MIN READ

Pride is not canceled. Although we aren’t able to gather for parades and celebrations we must continue to celebrate through its origins: the fight for human dignity, the confrontation of oppressive systems, and the resilience of those who will no longer be ignored.

2 MIN READ

We have been exploring ways to continue to engage in making our voices heard and dismantling the systems that have been specifically designed to hold particular people and groups down. Here are some of the resources we are leaning on to further educate ourselves, support others, and act towards social justice and human dignity in this moment.

3 MIN READ

What is borderline personality disorder and what causes it? How does it affect familial and romantic relationships? What does treatment look like? What can people with loved ones who have BPD do?

Why is understanding our uniqueness important to having great sex? What is the dual control model in the context of sexuality and how does it affect our desire? What steps can we take to develop a healthy relationship with sex and sexuality after experiencing trauma or sex negative conditioning?

What is Big Dick Energy (BDE)? What is the difference between having a big dick, being a big dick, and having big dick energy? Can BDE change the way we think of our lives and societies?

What is the distinction between talking with children about their bodies, about sexuality, and about sex? And why is it important to talk about each?

Are outbursts, a chronic lack of trust, and an unpredictable fluctuation between avoidant and anxious behavior a sign of disorganized attachment? What is disorganized attachment? How does it affect relationships?

Effy and Jacqueline sit down with Lydia Collins to talk about consent education, bodily autonomy within the context of race, and the difference between having a type and objectifying or fetishising someone.

Effy and Jacqueline hang out with “Juliet Takes a Breath” author Gabby Rivera to talk about drawing from the collective wisdom of feminism and sex-positivity to create QTBIPOC spaces that prioritize representation and intersectionality.

This week we will hear the story of Bear and Fifi. A few years into their relationship, after slowly taking down their walls to lean into love and trust, Bear revealed to Fifi that he is transgender and that he wanted to go through the process of transitioning.

Effy and Jacqueline speak with Dr. Ariana Moran and Maxx Fenning about identity formation, internal and external producers of shame and fear about our identity, and what we can do to help ourselves and others embrace the full expression of who we are.

Effy and Jacqueline speak with Dr. Jaime Grant about how stories of pleasure, delight, satisfaction, and discovery are equally effective within the work towards LGBTQ+ justice - and even more so because they keep us focused on the world we are trying to create.

From sexual or relational orientation to the way we show and receive love, knowing who we are and how we show up in the world is key to designing relationships we can thrive in. Effy chats with a diverse set of Foxes on this live panel.