Pleasure

Have you ever felt like you were speaking different languages with your sexual partner(s)? We introduce you to the 5 Erotic Blueprints can help you speak your partner’s sexual language and have more pleasurable, fulfilling, and exciting sexual experiences.

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Our sense of wholeness and safety can impact how we experience pleasure and connection through sexual play. How do our attachment patterns impact our sexual experiences? And - more importantly - what can we do about it?

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These 7 masturbation tips will help you prioritize self-pleasure and will provide you with some options to explore and go on a journey of sensual self-discovery.

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More and more women are exploring what it is like to be physically or emotionally intimate with another woman. However, our heteronormative history can make the first time intimidating. These 3 steps can help you release your anxiety and lean into this magical experience.

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Learn about how the Erotic Blueprints™ can help lead you to connective, empowering, fulfilling, and life-changing sex.

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As humans, we are very talented at distraction. We are masters of habit. So often we choose to ignore the parts of ourselves that are attached to painful thoughts and memories. But what would it be like to choose something different, to be truly present with your grief - if only for a few minutes? What would it be like if you consciously chose to sit with your grief and simply witness it?

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With all the options in sex toys, how do you know which to choose? How can you introduce toys into your partnered and solo play? From materials, budget, and the 4 questions you should be asking before you shop, we’ll help you pick out the right toy(s) for you.

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Learning our attachment patterns helps us discover how our brain and body show up in connection with others and why.

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Here’s how to harness the power of sensitivity and empathy to bring out your sexiest self.

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Why you should add self-touch & self-romance to your to-do list; plus tips on how to make it lush.

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These are four tips for empaths and highly sensitive people yearning to relax, enjoy the moment, and get turned on.

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What if there was a way to invite pleasure into the space where grief and pain live?

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What is sexual morality? How do we decide what is right and wrong when it comes to sex? Is it universal or does it change across cultures? How does moralizing sexuality affect our individual sexual expression and our views on sex as a society?

What is masochism and why do people engage in it? What is the difference between consenting to pain as a means to an end/ byproduct of an activity (e.g., ballerinas and competitive eaters) vs. pain on purpose? What are the benefits and the costs to pain as pleasure? What does masochism have to say about the human experience?

In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline sit down with Grace Wetzel to explore how our gendered experiences shape our sexual experiences. They look at research, which indicates that bi and straight women have the least amount of orgasms, compared to straight men, bi men, and lesbians.

Effy and Jacqueline catch up with a long time Friend of the Fox, co-host of Netflix’s Principles of Pleasure, and the creator and host of Sex Ed a Go Go, Dirty Lola, to talk all about sex toys.

Are there different modes to the same relationships? Can feeling safe, settled and comfy get in the way of passion and the erotic? How do we know what type of connection is available in any given relationship?

Effy and Jacqueline speak with Dr. Jaime Grant about how stories of pleasure, delight, satisfaction, and discovery are equally effective within the work towards LGBTQ+ justice - and even more so because they keep us focused on the world we are trying to create.

Effy and Jacqueline invite Taylor to talk about her experience as a unicorn (the majestic creature that joins a couple for a night of wonder and magic) and now her quest for a third to join her and her partner.