Meet the Team

Curious Fox takes its direction from the authentic curiosity of folks who are following their passion.

Effy Blue

Born and educated in Europe, Effy Blue has worked to make a name as a notable relationship coach in the United States. She has leveraged her background in branding, community building, and human behavior to found Curious Fox.

Providing a global perspective, historical and cultural context, and real-life challenges and discoveries from the world of sex positivity and consensual non-monogamy, Effy strives to encourage others to challenge the status quo in love, sex, and relationships.

Although often we use the words “emotions” and “feelings” interchangeably, they are not the same scientifically or linguistically. There is certainly an overlap, however it’s in their distinction that we can gain a deepe

When we start dating someone we often get focused on the parts that entice us, the points of connection, the giddiness of new relationship energy (NRE). It’s often said that we miss the “red flags”. When I look at this idea from the

* Bringing up non-monogamy with your partner:
Avoiding important conversations causes a disconnection in the relationship, which will often be felt by the other person. It’s better to be in active communication than passive avoidance. 🗣

Just like your financial investments it’s a good idea to diversify your support network.

Friends, family, colleagues, communities, professionals... Relying only on romantic relationship(s) for support puts a ton of pressure and expectations o

Listening is an important part of communication.
Waiting for your turn to speak is not listening.
Waiting for the other person to finish speaking is not listening.
Being silent is not listening.

Making the other person feel heard is an essential ski

We are conditioned to seek a sense of safety and security from our romantic partners. This "need" puts too much pressure on these connections making them too essential and too precious for our wellbeing.

Cultivating a sense of safety and

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❓What is it like to love the same person?
❓What kind of relationship is available for those who share a partner?
❓Do you have to know your lover's lover?

Me and Jackie (@jacquelinemisla) revi

When I first started exploring nonmonogamy, I thought through pretty much every permutation of relationship design and I was prepared for it all. Or at least that's what I thought...

The metamour relationship dynamic caught me entirely by surprise.

Jacqueline Misla, MSW

With expertise on how to thrive amidst change and how to design a life with roots and wings, Jacqueline Misla brings the perspective of a change strategist, social justice advocate, storyteller, and badass mom to the Curious Fox community.

Her background in social work, organizational development, adult and youth education, and the arts, Jacqueline blends her vast professional experience to lead the operational strategy for Curious Fox.

This is the drumbeat that moves my soul.

🥁 🏳️&zwj;🌈 ✊🏼

@nycdykemarchofficial with @texisaurus_lex and @coacheffyblue

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#pridemonth #pride #dykemarchnyc 🗽

I spent my birthday with @coacheffyblue at the @museumofsex.

My @wearecuriousfoxes ride or die.

I cannot think of a better way to bring in the new year!

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#HappyBirthdayToMe

In addition to the start of summer, Pride, and Puerto Rican Day Parade, June is my birthday month. 🥳

This year, I am committing to the ride. I'm gonna dance, jump, play, scream, create, dive, and rest. 😁

Photo dump of last month's festivities to

Every morning I awake torn between a desire to save the world and an inclination to savor it. This makes it hard to plan the day.

But if we forget to savor the world, what possible reason do we have for saving it?

E.B. White

Yağmur ErkİŞİ

Yağmur is a design graduate, yoga and mindfulness enthusiast with a hunger for curiosity. Born and raised in Istanbul in the middle of the diversity of cultures, she’s always open to change, learn and unlearn. Unknown territories are her favorite even it’s simple as knitting, or irrelevant like Formula 1, she’s been a wanderer her whole life.

Curiosity and open heartedness brought her here to become the Assistant Producer and Content Coordinator in Curious Fox. She believes that celebrating who we are and one’s ability to stay open is the key to stay curious!

nina pollock

Nina is a New York based Composer, Creative Audio Engineer, and Podcast Producer with professional composing, recording, mixing, editing, and producing experience. She has composed for multiple shorts and one feature film. She also edits and produces a variety of weekly podcasts. Her goal is to embrace every aspect of media and find the ways in which music and sound play a role within each of them. She hopes to work with other creatives who share the same joy of bringing stories to life!