Are you considering an open relationship?
Are you excited about the ideas and don’t know where to start?
Do you have concerns how it may affect your existing relationship?
Opening up your relationship will turn stadium-sized floodlights onto your relationship. Exposing all of the worries, insecurities, and conflicts you’ve hidden in the dark. Instead of pulling a couple closer, this process can push a couple apart if not consciously and dynamically designed with thriving in mind.
We bring you the RELATIONSHIP BY DESIGN process(???).
Join us for a 6 week interactive coaching series designed just for you.
We will be providing you with everything you need to know about non-monogamy, and share the tools, insights, pitfalls, and customized support and community to help you and your partner thrive in this new adventure.

Does this sound familiar?
We’re ready to open up our relationship.
“I was so excited to realize we both wanted to open our relationship...until I realized that we had very different ideas about what ‘open’ means.”
“My partner and I would like to open up...and now I don’t know what to do next.”
“We talk about opening up constantly, but we can’t come to an agreement and there is no movement.”
“I want this, but don’t know how to bring it up with my partner.”
We’ve already opened up, but have hit some roadblocks.
“We thought that opening up our relationship would be fun and create and freedom...but all we do is fight. I don’t want to lose my relationship and don’t want to go back to monogamy, so I feel stuck.”
“I wanted to be in an open relationship, but now I’m feeling jealous and overwhelmed.”
“This was harder than we thought it’d be. In opening up, we inadvertently opened up a box of feelings and problems that we don’t know how to address.”
Welcome to Relationship By Design!
We are going to give you a blueprint for a modern way to look at open relationships - one that empowers you to have a relationship by design, instead of a relationship by default.
Through this interactive coaching series, we will guide you in:
Clarifying and naming your needs and desires, so you can build a relationship that enables you to thrive
Doing a relationship aduit, so that you can assess what creative work needs to be done to get you ready to open up
Building the tools and skills to find alignment between yourself and your relationship
Creating the unique blueprint for your relationship, and helping you create dedicated space fortafy your core relationship
Building communication skills, including negotiation, conflict resolution, and active listening
Determining a dating strategy that opens you up to connection, adventure and play, in alignment with your desires and the guidelines of your open relationship
Offering evaluation and refining tools so that you are your partner can stay connected throughout your journey and adjust as you go along.

Meet your guides on your journey towards thriving.
Effy Blue is a relationship coach specializing in non-monogamy. As the creator of Relationship by Design, Blue's coaching philosophy abandons the one-size-fits-all relationship by default paradigm, prescribed by society and advocates instead that relationships be consciously designed to support those in them to thrive.
Effy Blue is a relationship expert specializing in non-monogamy and other alternative structures. As the founder of Relationship by Design, Blue's coaching philosophy abandons the one-size-fits-all relationship paradigm prescribed by society and advocates instead that relationships be consciously designed to support the needs of those in it. Blue is also the creator of Play Party Etiquette, a book and workshop designed to demystify the exciting world of sex parties.
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